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                                 DIWALI According to belief, the sound of fire-crackers are an indication of the joy of the people living on earth, making the gods aware of their plentiful state. Still another possible reason has a more scientific basis: the fumes produced by the crackers kill a lot of insects and mosquitoes, found in plenty after the rains. Diwali is associated with lights, sweets, and liveliness; especially lights. As, it is celebrated on the new-moon (Amavasya) night, lights and fireworks have a significant role to play in this festival. This is why, when we heard the name Diwali, the first impression that flashes through our minds is of multicolored and impressive fireworks, sprinkling various sorts of bright colored lights in the night sky. Although the tradition of fireworks on Diwali is not very old, still ...

Nowadays it’s very hard to find a good man or woman who can take relationships seriously, who knows what commitment and loyalty means, and who is respectful and patient to their partners. Most of the people of nowadays enter relationships with far different intentions not related to love and marriage. . They are so smart and sweet with their lies. Once they have attained what they wanted with you, they show the true colours of their hearts. And that’s when everything starts drifting. The once so-called sweetheart, honey, babe… becomes a whore, slut, dog, and many other ugly things. The end result is always a break up. . You then see each other as strangers and dangerous enemies. You then develop hate and fear for certain type of people and relationships. Yeah, such things are inevitable in life. They were meant for to make us stronger. We just have to deal with them and move on with life. . But if you are lucky enough that you have a good man or woman in your life that...

Never judge a person who doesn't have a relationship status and never underestimate a person if they are single.They might be single maybe because they fear being in a relationship because of a recent breakup or a bad past. Maybe they were cheated upon and they are too shattered to trust anyone again. Maybe they want someone who would understand them and take relationships serious or maybe they are waiting for their true love and they have the courage, strength, ability, attitude and confidence to wait for what they deserve. Whatever the reason maybe don’t judge them. If you are single and searching for a soul mate be careful, because many people are going to lie straight in your face how they love you, how they will never hurt you like how other people did, how they will never leave you or get tired of you, how they wanna spend the rest of their life with you, and how you are so different from all the ones they have ever had. And you will end up getting blinded and do the same m...

Dedicated to GIRLS           This is for the girls who have the tendency to stay up all night listening to music that reminds them of their current situation..!! Who hide their pain and tears under their smiles and laughs all on a daily basis..!!The girls who wear their hearts on their sleeve..!!The girls who pray things will workout just once and they’ll be satisfied..!!The girls who scream and cry into their pillows because the rest of the world fails to listen..!!The girls who have it hard but don’t let anyone know that..!!The girls who may never have it easy..!!The girls who have so many secrets but will never tell a soul..!!The girls who have regrets and mistakes as a daily moral..!!The girls who don’t always win, who may never win..!!The girls who stay up all night thinking about that one boy wondering if he’ll ever notice her or thinks about her.!! The girls who take life as it comes, hoping it’ll get eas...

Something I wrote to a woman who wanted advice on cheating men. I'm honest... Self love comes in many forms, eating right, workouts, reading, but the most important form of self love comes with being happy. Health isn't merely physical, it is mental.  Happiness is transient, you can't hold on to it, you have to keep on thinking positively&practising all of the forms of self love, that keep you happy everyday.  Some men cheat,This isn't your fault.  If you look in the animal kingdom, monogamy doesn't really exist and where it does it is predominantly circumstantial, not by choice. It's not really natural.  Humans are nature, between their minds&bodies, many have conflicting views.  Many men don't cheat hoping to hurt their partners, but because of education, honest discussions are rare.  Most men will say what they think you want to hear & act according to how they have been educated, many don't truly believe that one woman for the rest ...

Some people never grow, evolve or better themselves.  I no longer chill with people like this. As I grow older and wiser I have been learning more about the world, this affects my opinions and decisions day to day.  Once you make an observation, you have an obligation to make decisions, based on the new information.  Yet some people will still behave in the same negative manner, as they did all those years ago.  Some of the reasons that people don't evolve:  They don't read books!  They are tying to copy celebrities.  They can't stop smoking, drinking, taking drugs  They revel in their ignorance.  They don't question anything.  They aren't humble enough to learn from somebody else with more experience.  They believe everything the media tells them.  They are in a spiritual battle and don't want to objectively analyse themselves.  Some of the reasons people evolve:  They experience some sort of life changing traumati...