Something I wrote to a woman who wanted advice on cheating men.
I'm honest... Self love comes in many forms, eating right, workouts, reading, but the most important form of self love comes with being happy. Health isn't merely physical, it is mental.
Happiness is transient, you can't hold on to it, you have to keep on thinking positively&practising all of the forms of self love, that keep you happy everyday.
Some men cheat,This isn't your fault.
If you look in the animal kingdom, monogamy doesn't really exist and where it does it is predominantly circumstantial, not by choice. It's not really natural.
Humans are nature, between their minds&bodies, many have conflicting views.
Many men don't cheat hoping to hurt their partners, but because of education, honest discussions are rare.
Most men will say what they think you want to hear & act according to how they have been educated, many don't truly believe that one woman for the rest of their lives is realistic. Humans+ultimatums....Men should have open & frank discussions about what they want/expect.
Many feel that they can't, so they lie&cheat.
Not excusing it, just trying to explain it.
Our views are usually hypocritical, because many men want to sleep with multiple women, but they don't want their partners to sleep with multiple men.
This is patriarchy at its finest.
Don't beat yourself up about the actions of men, in future have open conversations, allow him to think that you are open minded, even if you aren't just so that he feels comfortable enough to tell his truth, you can then make you decisions based on that.
Love & believe in yourself.
Humans celebrate confidence, those who are doing well and seem like they know where they are going.
Keep positive,You are more privileged than most, try to be happy, surround yourself with your friends, family/people who love you.
Don't let men control your happiness.
You were born beautiful, don't let life change this
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