I ONLY GROW APART FROM PEOPLE WHO DON'T GROW

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Some people never grow, evolve or better themselves. 
I no longer chill with people like this.
As I grow older and wiser I have been learning more about the world, this affects my opinions and decisions day to day. 
Once you make an observation, you have an obligation to make decisions, based on the new information. 
Yet some people will still behave in the same negative manner, as they did all those years ago. 
Some of the reasons that people don't evolve: 
They don't read books! 
They are tying to copy celebrities. 
They can't stop smoking, drinking, taking drugs 
They revel in their ignorance. 
They don't question anything. 
They aren't humble enough to learn from somebody else with more experience. 
They believe everything the media tells them. 
They are in a spiritual battle and don't want to objectively analyse themselves. 
Some of the reasons people evolve: 
They experience some sort of life changing traumatic event. 
They read and study. 
They start to love themselves without negative judgement. 
They learn to believe in themselves. 
They get a mentor, someone with more experience than them and they learn from them. 
They have children and want to give their children a childhood, that they don't have to spend the rest of their lives recovering from. 
Somebody close to them passes away and this humbles them, making them change their behavioural habits. 
There are many more reasons why people grow and why people stay the same. 
But remember, the wiser person knows that they will always have much to learn. 
I have no time for forced conversion, people who refuse to grow and unnecessary relationships. 
I don't feel sorry for this in any way, shape or form. 

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