DO IT YOURSELF

Survival of the hardest working You dream about being successful. Maybe you talk about your aspirations and think about how you might be able to do it. During commercials, you imagine yourself taking the next step. Between bites of pizza, you envision a new life for yourself and maybe have some big ideas. Then the show comes back on. Success finds those who push their mental and physical limits, and those who expand their work capacity on a daily basis. An excuse is a failure. It is a failure from which you cannot recover, one that will teach you nothing. The show coming back on is not en excuse, and failure is not an option. When you stop making excuses and unleash your full potential as a human being, you will feel alone. You'll feel like no one understands you. When you start to feel like this, keep going, because you're doing something right. Embrace that feeling and keep striving. Strive for something so unreal that even if you fall short, you will have still done so...

Circumstances will test your grit! No way to avoid them. If you are breathing the space you occupy will be "tested" at some point. I agree with Henry David Thoreau when he stated "that most of us go through life in a quite desperation". How many of you hope that nothing rocks your world and shakes you to your knees? If you say, I do, this is normal and expected. No one wants pain or disappointment. But you have all experienced it on some level, overcame it and you are still breathing which means there is more for you to do! Don't tip toe around operating below your minimum. Understand that it is never the circumstance or problem that is bigger than you. It is just bigger than your current thinking at that time! The human mind has flown to the moon, climbed the highest mountains and explored undiscovered terrains. This human mind is yours and it can find a way over and through the challenging circumstance. It could never be greater than you. You can win! Believ...

Relationships It's shouldn't appear to the girl that she is the only one who is handling or taking care of the relationship and the only one who makes all the efforts. Fights, Misunderstandings Happens in every relationship but it doesn't mean that Both the Partners get Angry on each other and show their Anger. To Run a Relationship Both have to Burn their Ego and Attitude,As there is no place for it. Give her full Freedom and space in both Personal and Professional Life!, One must take care of her like a child and make sure you give her proper attention and importance when she is with you in public or with your colleagues. A Girl wants her Partner to Love her Soul and not her Naked Body, And someone who admires her Inner Beauty and learns the importance of her Self Respect. Using Abusive Language and Doubting on her make Her mad.A guy should give the same respect to her like he does to his mother and sister. Trust and Loyalty​ is the most important thing and it shou...

I've seen people breaking down  after their loved ones leave them.  I've seen them shatter into pieces,  the pieces which are hard to put  back together. I honestly do not get any of this  getting-into-a-relationship thing  and how a person becomes the "reason for living" for the other. Weren't you living for a long time  without that person since you were born? Moreover, why give people such  importance and respect that when  they leave you, you begin to break?  No human is perfect enough not to  hurt your feelings. A thing like relationship needs  time and commitment which many  of us are not in a position to give. I am not against relationships, I'm against the fact that how  getting into it confides you,  takes you away from the things  you like to do and makes you  live according to the whims of  the other person whom you love  because of which you both begin to ...

Warning: Avoid looking at pictures of food as it will make you hungry!!  The study says that, Viewing pictures of food makes your brain feel like it has already experienced eating that thing.. Its true actually because, I get hungry whenever I see food pictures!! Of course pictures of food create feelings of hunger. I am gonna share my overall experience at The Great Wall which is located at Besant Nagar, Chennai. This one is Sucha cute, little Chinese restaurant for Chinese food lovers and also Pocket friendly. Firstly, I loved the Ambiance. Lightings was soothing  It was too good, we loved it. So me and my friends started taking pictures. It came out very well And then starting from the starters to mains.. We ordered Chicken Momo, Dragon Chicken, Chicken Pan Fried Noodles, Chicken fried Rice. Omg!!! My choice don’t go wrong  Chicken Momo was absolutely delicious without any doubt. Dragon Chicken is my favourite, I loved it so much. I persona...

Distance love Love is magical . It give you confidence , makes you to feel you have something also love is unpredictable . Its a God's blessings.  Love may come from various sources in many way . In this today I am going to share my experience in distance love.  First of all I want to tell Distance love is possible . Love without seeing each other , only text and voice it's best feeling. You can feel he (or) she in your palm in a phone as message or photo. Now let's come to my topic. Boy's in distance love Boys use to sacrifice more during love, they will do anything to make his girl smile. Only boys know how they feel inside. No one knows that boys are really sentimentally weak. Probably boys will fall in love more in beauty but also there are some boys who search for caring heart. There is fact that boys will fall in love without seeing a girl , also if they love a girl by her text and voice, They starts living in imagination. They start go things which surp...

A BAD TIME STORY., The time was 6'o clock My alarm breakdown I was rushing  To go for my work, Ray's of sun Hit's hard on my face I swallow my food With planning what to do yet? Beyond the traffic  I was running late on time Between the clay road's  And behind stagnant pool's As I reach my busstop Bus yet arrives  Time run's late  Later bus turns my side It's too rush  I have no other go So I stood on footboard I fallen before I reach my stop So I got help from someone   who was like a god to me, Further I ran across the gate Thank God it din close yet Next I entered class I got notified  Today is my class test I just wrote what they thought Later classes drained my dreaming thought I waited for evening bell's Soon it ring's as  I wish I gone chasing bus Searched for a window seat With drowsy feeling on my mind Wind's over my head it's divine I closed my eyes with holding my bags Later I have reached ...

A LOVE LETTER I am alone in bus Nothing in my mind Your words on my ears And tears on my eyes You said you need me forever But now you left me alone forever I thought it's just a nightmares But pains just nailed me Now it broken my heart And said my soul to rest in peace I just want your three words Which sounds so good Makes me feel  As I am so blessed But now bleeding from my soul As Pains in my heart I run so far  To search you somewhere But that fact is .... I cared you like as a kid You just stolen my breath I trust you blindly from my heart You just throws me as you hate Now I am searching for the day Which steals my heart But there I see is footprint path The days were to short but not the pain My love may fail but not dead Waiting for your comeback in my life... I just bend my legs  Rise my arms and Gave my heart as I am telling "I love you" But you flicked it  Under your heal  And crushed as saying "you hate me" ...

How you hurt A Nice Girl •You hurt nice girls by taking their love for granted. •You hurt nice girls by lying to them, when all they’ve ever been is honest. •You hurt nice girls thinking their kindness is their greatest weakness. •You hurt nice girls by telling them they need to change. By choosing someone else who treats you worse. •You hurt nice girls by leading them on and playing games, when all they’ve been is real. •You hurt nice girls, when they give you their heart and you don’t see the value it in. •You hurt nice girls by putting them on the back burner and thinking they will always be there. •You hurt nice girls, when you stop meeting them halfway. When you make them try too hard, Care too much without giving even a little bit. •You hurt nice girls, when you break their heart and you make them think it’s their fault. •You hurt nice girls, when you walk away because you realise they ha...

Dear Crush, Remember an year ago, when I saw you for the first time, Your spiky hair, Cool attitude, Those looks Honestly, only I know how I controlled my laughter because to other girls- You might have appeared to be Breath-taking cute, but to me- You seemed like another fool. I wanted to tell you to keep that hair fine because those spikes looked like someone had given you 200 volt current! Trust me, you looked idiotic but I don't know why I felt something inside me tickling, when I saw those eyes and I do admit there was something that attracted me towards you, but I kept defying that fact because I was never the girl with secret crushes, but you became my first secret crush! I still remember the day, I saw you looking in my eyes the way I used to look in yours & that eye contact for a millisecond sent sparks up in my spine. I still remember the day, you started sitting beside me in classes and then for the first time you said a Hey, we started to talk & I usual...

You dont go away from me You are my eyes  in front You are my life I am suffering without you Like a root of the tree I become rooted with you love is really  painful I understood that From you now First time from my mistake I don't know why I changed Other than you in earth I think everything is waste Until time changes you making me to hold Gave me love and don't know why you leaving Without killing me don't kill me with your love Inside my soul Daily when I see you You are hiding in me Without any question Vast Love is coming when I join with you My life becomes colorful  To live with you This birth is not enough for me

Negativity is highly underrated Everyone whines and cries about how hard they have it. They hide from it and try to avoid it. Everyone wants to sound all noble and proper and say things like You're doing it for the wrong reasons... if you want to shove every ounce of every doubt & disbelief that ANYONE ever expressed to you down their throat. I say bullshit....EMBRACE IT Negativity is an amazing fuel for success when you know how to harness it. Every time I feel burnt, frustrated, lazy...I draw on those emotions to get  in gear and start moving the direction I need to go. Unfortunately, the world is a mean place...especially if you have big dreams...it will do EVERYTHING it can to get you lose belief in yourself, become insecure and accept a path you don't really want. Then it will tell you that you should be grateful for that path. It will push you to the brink and make you question EVERYTHING about yourself. And when that happens you have two choices: A. Give i...

So much of society is focused on "whats in it for me?". This exactly the OPPOSITE of the attitude that gets you anywhere in life. When 99% of the people are the "take take take" variety...how do you stand out and create value for yourself? BE SOMEONE WHO GIVES. BE SOMEONE WHO CONTRIBUTES. BE SOME WHO MAKES OTHERS BETTER. When you give yourself selflessly you not only make yourself stand out...you become more valuable in a relationship, organization and society. This leads to bigger and better opportunities and also you create a more fulfilling existence for yourself. Giving isnt only the key to success...its the key to happiness. Its not "what can I get?"...its "what can I give?". If you're a "what can I get" person don't be surprised.

I see so many people trying to craft, construct, and design THE PERFECT plan for their lives. They look for a plan that has zero obstacles, zero risk, zero setbacks, zero fear that requires the least amount of effort possible. You know what a plan like that gets you? ZERO RESULTS. You know why? Because you'll always be in "Plan mode" and never start "ACTION MODE" because a plan like that doesnt exist The VERY BEST thing you can do RIGHT NOW is accept that you are going to screw up. You are going to make mistakes. You are going to fail. AND THIS IS A GREAT THING EMBRACE IT You cannot win without out first learning how to lose. Once you fully grasp this concept, instead of looking at "failure" as a negative thing...you'll get excited to fail and apply the lessons "failing" blesses you with. Failure in average minds, is generally thought of as some negative event that is beyond our control. In reality, "Failure" is on...

So much of society is focused on "whats in it for me?". This exactly the OPPOSITE of the attitude that gets you anywhere in life. When 99% of the people are the "take take take" variety...how do you stand out and create value for yourself? BE SOMEONE WHO GIVES. BE SOMEONE WHO CONTRIBUTES. BE SOME WHO MAKES OTHERS BETTER. When you give yourself selflessly you not only make yourself stand out...you become more valuable in a relationship, organization and society. This leads to bigger and better opportunities and also you create a more fulfilling existence for yourself. Giving isnt only the key to success...its the key to happiness. Its not "what can I get?"...its "what can I give?". If you're a "what can I get" person don't be surprised.

 views You want to do something. You have never done this thing before. You want to be great at this thing. You havent put in the study hours. You havent put in the practice. You havent put in the work. You havent put in the time. You know youre going to be bad at this thing when you start. And since its incomprehensible for you to be bad at something in front of other people....you decide to do nothing...and continue on with an existence that is unfulfilling, boring, irrelevant and leaves you with nothing to show for your life....oh...and broke too. All because your ego is so f**king over inflated & fragile that you aren't willing to look bad when you first start out. Makes a lot sense. 😑🔫

Success is far less about how productive you are when you "feel like it" and far more about how well you can execute when you don't. Learning how to close that gap is the ultimate productivity habit. A common assumption among people that struggle is that "successful people" either have it easier or possess super human powers that keep them "in the zone" and running at high levels every single day. And while it is 100% TRUE that successful people run at high levels every single day. Its not because they are special or gifted or have it easier. They have bad days. They struggle just like you. The difference is they have developed a habit & a discipline for themselves that pushes them through the days on which they struggle and keeps them producing at high levels even when they do not feel like it. They have created a thought pivot that triggers productive action. For example: " Im too tired to respond to those five emails...Id rather ...

This wasn't meant for me. Are you sure? Or are you don't have what it takes in your heart to endure the struggle? Being able to look yourself in the mirror and be honest with yourself in situations where something "isnt for you" about exactly "why" it isnt for you is a necessary tool to cultivate. Because here is the truth 99.99% of the time people say "this isnt for me" what they are really saying is Im not willing to do the work required and I want something easier. And if thats the case...success most likely "isnt for you" either. If you were wanting to run a marathon, but every time you got frustrated, tired, winded, sore or bored you turned around and went back to the starting line would you ever complete your goal of running a marathon? Of course not. Life goals are EXACTLY the same. Success is the same. Nothing GREAT is given...it's EARNED...its built by your dreams, thoughts, focus & ACTIONS. The factor that al...

I have a question, Do you really need a reason to Smile, Cant you just Smile. Try it!!! Just Smile 😊 See if you can do it, if you can then then great. Some of you might find it difficult. For those who cannot, Try this !!! Go in front of a mirror and give smile at yourself and Thank God for creating me like this.. I know you still didn't do it.. Stop and go try it and see or at least switch on front mobile camera and try it.. Can you smile looking at yourself seeing how beautiful God has created you. .. For those who cannot, then Go to your spouse, mother or father .. look into their eyes and Smile and say Thank you for everything and give them a hug..  Find a positive reason to smile and just smile. Now if you still cannot do that also  then look at your picture and smile .. saying funny positive guy 😊😊 I am sure you will smiling now ..😄 Make sure to share someone who you just want to Smile. Because it is simple but not easy ...

One thing Im seeing and hearing A LOT of is people trying to devise the perfect plan. Lets get the smoothest path with the least resistance all laid out & perfect then all without ever leaving your moms basement. Please know 1. "The perfect plan" is a myth. IT DOES NOT EXIST. 2. The path of least resistance is the fools path. Everyone takes it and there is VERY LITTLE reward at the end. I don't care how much you prepare, how much you think, how much you strategize...once you start all bets are off. Its exactly like that saying: "Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face"...and guess what...in any success journey the punches in the face never stop. Ever. The thing you have to realize is: THATS NORMAL. You are not some special case where only you struggle and everyone else has it easy. STRUGGLE --->SUCCESS You CANNOT have one without the other. Struggle is a KEY INGREDIENT, if not THE KEY INGREDIENT to the success recipe! Struggle...

Nobody wishes to be broke. Nobody wishes to be lonely. Nobody wishes to spend a lifetime unhappy. Nobody wishes for a career they hate. Nobody wishes to be unhealthy. Nobody wishes to be average. Nobody wishes for their dreams to never come true. Most people end up here dumbfounded as to how it turned out this way. It turned out this way because most people, when faced with a difficult situation, default to the "now" comfort. They perpetually let themselves off the hook. The instant gratification of low stress, easy work, avoidance of pressure ultimately costs you EVERYTHING. The worst part is...most of the people you know and associate with will tell you you're doing the right thing when you do this. Be conscious of the path you're on and the choices you've been conditioned to make. The seeds you plant today yield next years harvest

You either are or you aren't. There is no in between. Big talk. No Action. Its an epidemic. Why should someone else have to convince you to have dreams? Or chase them? Or work to build the life you want? Nobody should have to "pull" you along to success...and nobody is going to either! Its on YOU. There is nothing anyone...myself included...can say or do that can motivate you to do anything. You may think others are motivating you...but really we are reminding you of your own motivations. The ones you probably dont speak of for fear of disapproval. We all have our own reasons for doing anything...especially anything great. Then remind yourself & focus on these reasons daily...no hourly...and use them as fuel to build your ultimate existence. Your reasons are in your heart and you either want it or you don't...and your ACTIONS tell that story. Not your words. Not your memes Not your shares Not your Facebook posts. Your actions are all that matter. ...

Humans are not meant for " THE EASY PATH " We are meant to be tested. We are meant to be challenged. We are meant to struggle. We are meant to be scarred. We are meant to lose. Learn to love these facts...and greatness will find you. Losers sit in the corner, play it "safe" and look for the best way not to lose. Winners look for the best way to win and understand that losing is essential to winning regardless of how many beatings they take. When you remove the losing...you remove the learning. When you remove the learning...you remove the progress. When you remove the progress...you remove the skills needed to win. Accept & appreciate your beatings...and use them to your advantage. Losing will teach you far more about winning than winning ever will. Quit cowering in the corner. Nothing good happens there.

I have learned anything this year, it is this: It is okay to not be okay. It is the mark of a strong person to be vulnerable enough to admit as much, to know when to ask for help and to receive it, to do whatever it takes to feel better, to speak out or withdraw as self-care. To have courage and talk openly about whatever we need to. Our feelings are real. We are brave. We are not annoying anyone by reaching out. We are not crazy. We must be kind to ourselves. our kindness toward others can reach and lift us when we can't be. Our healing and empowerment lies in living from the truth of who we are. Who that is, is more than okay. Empathy and emotion in an age of disconnection is a superpower; it is a gift to feel as much as we do. We heal our compassion fatigue and overall suffering, we integrate our wild untamed feelings when we embrace them fully, the light and the dark, and give them and ourselves more love more understanding and gratitude for the messengers they are and growt...