DO IT YOURSELF

How you hurt A Nice Girl •You hurt nice girls by taking their love for granted. •You hurt nice girls by lying to them, when all they’ve ever been is honest. •You hurt nice girls thinking their kindness is their greatest weakness. •You hurt nice girls by telling them they need to change. By choosing someone else who treats you worse. •You hurt nice girls by leading them on and playing games, when all they’ve been is real. •You hurt nice girls, when they give you their heart and you don’t see the value it in. •You hurt nice girls by putting them on the back burner and thinking they will always be there. •You hurt nice girls, when you stop meeting them halfway. When you make them try too hard, Care too much without giving even a little bit. •You hurt nice girls, when you break their heart and you make them think it’s their fault. •You hurt nice girls, when you walk away because you realise they ha...

Dear Crush, Remember an year ago, when I saw you for the first time, Your spiky hair, Cool attitude, Those looks Honestly, only I know how I controlled my laughter because to other girls- You might have appeared to be Breath-taking cute, but to me- You seemed like another fool. I wanted to tell you to keep that hair fine because those spikes looked like someone had given you 200 volt current! Trust me, you looked idiotic but I don't know why I felt something inside me tickling, when I saw those eyes and I do admit there was something that attracted me towards you, but I kept defying that fact because I was never the girl with secret crushes, but you became my first secret crush! I still remember the day, I saw you looking in my eyes the way I used to look in yours & that eye contact for a millisecond sent sparks up in my spine. I still remember the day, you started sitting beside me in classes and then for the first time you said a Hey, we started to talk & I usual...

You dont go away from me You are my eyes  in front You are my life I am suffering without you Like a root of the tree I become rooted with you love is really  painful I understood that From you now First time from my mistake I don't know why I changed Other than you in earth I think everything is waste Until time changes you making me to hold Gave me love and don't know why you leaving Without killing me don't kill me with your love Inside my soul Daily when I see you You are hiding in me Without any question Vast Love is coming when I join with you My life becomes colorful  To live with you This birth is not enough for me

Negativity is highly underrated Everyone whines and cries about how hard they have it. They hide from it and try to avoid it. Everyone wants to sound all noble and proper and say things like You're doing it for the wrong reasons... if you want to shove every ounce of every doubt & disbelief that ANYONE ever expressed to you down their throat. I say bullshit....EMBRACE IT Negativity is an amazing fuel for success when you know how to harness it. Every time I feel burnt, frustrated, lazy...I draw on those emotions to get  in gear and start moving the direction I need to go. Unfortunately, the world is a mean place...especially if you have big dreams...it will do EVERYTHING it can to get you lose belief in yourself, become insecure and accept a path you don't really want. Then it will tell you that you should be grateful for that path. It will push you to the brink and make you question EVERYTHING about yourself. And when that happens you have two choices: A. Give i...

So much of society is focused on "whats in it for me?". This exactly the OPPOSITE of the attitude that gets you anywhere in life. When 99% of the people are the "take take take" variety...how do you stand out and create value for yourself? BE SOMEONE WHO GIVES. BE SOMEONE WHO CONTRIBUTES. BE SOME WHO MAKES OTHERS BETTER. When you give yourself selflessly you not only make yourself stand out...you become more valuable in a relationship, organization and society. This leads to bigger and better opportunities and also you create a more fulfilling existence for yourself. Giving isnt only the key to success...its the key to happiness. Its not "what can I get?"...its "what can I give?". If you're a "what can I get" person don't be surprised.

I see so many people trying to craft, construct, and design THE PERFECT plan for their lives. They look for a plan that has zero obstacles, zero risk, zero setbacks, zero fear that requires the least amount of effort possible. You know what a plan like that gets you? ZERO RESULTS. You know why? Because you'll always be in "Plan mode" and never start "ACTION MODE" because a plan like that doesnt exist The VERY BEST thing you can do RIGHT NOW is accept that you are going to screw up. You are going to make mistakes. You are going to fail. AND THIS IS A GREAT THING EMBRACE IT You cannot win without out first learning how to lose. Once you fully grasp this concept, instead of looking at "failure" as a negative thing...you'll get excited to fail and apply the lessons "failing" blesses you with. Failure in average minds, is generally thought of as some negative event that is beyond our control. In reality, "Failure" is on...

So much of society is focused on "whats in it for me?". This exactly the OPPOSITE of the attitude that gets you anywhere in life. When 99% of the people are the "take take take" variety...how do you stand out and create value for yourself? BE SOMEONE WHO GIVES. BE SOMEONE WHO CONTRIBUTES. BE SOME WHO MAKES OTHERS BETTER. When you give yourself selflessly you not only make yourself stand out...you become more valuable in a relationship, organization and society. This leads to bigger and better opportunities and also you create a more fulfilling existence for yourself. Giving isnt only the key to success...its the key to happiness. Its not "what can I get?"...its "what can I give?". If you're a "what can I get" person don't be surprised.