DO IT YOURSELF

So much of society is focused on "whats in it for me?". This exactly the OPPOSITE of the attitude that gets you anywhere in life. When 99% of the people are the "take take take" variety...how do you stand out and create value for yourself? BE SOMEONE WHO GIVES. BE SOMEONE WHO CONTRIBUTES. BE SOME WHO MAKES OTHERS BETTER. When you give yourself selflessly you not only make yourself stand out...you become more valuable in a relationship, organization and society. This leads to bigger and better opportunities and also you create a more fulfilling existence for yourself. Giving isnt only the key to success...its the key to happiness. Its not "what can I get?"...its "what can I give?". If you're a "what can I get" person don't be surprised.

 views You want to do something. You have never done this thing before. You want to be great at this thing. You havent put in the study hours. You havent put in the practice. You havent put in the work. You havent put in the time. You know youre going to be bad at this thing when you start. And since its incomprehensible for you to be bad at something in front of other people....you decide to do nothing...and continue on with an existence that is unfulfilling, boring, irrelevant and leaves you with nothing to show for your life....oh...and broke too. All because your ego is so f**king over inflated & fragile that you aren't willing to look bad when you first start out. Makes a lot sense. 😑🔫

Success is far less about how productive you are when you "feel like it" and far more about how well you can execute when you don't. Learning how to close that gap is the ultimate productivity habit. A common assumption among people that struggle is that "successful people" either have it easier or possess super human powers that keep them "in the zone" and running at high levels every single day. And while it is 100% TRUE that successful people run at high levels every single day. Its not because they are special or gifted or have it easier. They have bad days. They struggle just like you. The difference is they have developed a habit & a discipline for themselves that pushes them through the days on which they struggle and keeps them producing at high levels even when they do not feel like it. They have created a thought pivot that triggers productive action. For example: " Im too tired to respond to those five emails...Id rather ...

This wasn't meant for me. Are you sure? Or are you don't have what it takes in your heart to endure the struggle? Being able to look yourself in the mirror and be honest with yourself in situations where something "isnt for you" about exactly "why" it isnt for you is a necessary tool to cultivate. Because here is the truth 99.99% of the time people say "this isnt for me" what they are really saying is Im not willing to do the work required and I want something easier. And if thats the case...success most likely "isnt for you" either. If you were wanting to run a marathon, but every time you got frustrated, tired, winded, sore or bored you turned around and went back to the starting line would you ever complete your goal of running a marathon? Of course not. Life goals are EXACTLY the same. Success is the same. Nothing GREAT is given...it's EARNED...its built by your dreams, thoughts, focus & ACTIONS. The factor that al...

I have a question, Do you really need a reason to Smile, Cant you just Smile. Try it!!! Just Smile 😊 See if you can do it, if you can then then great. Some of you might find it difficult. For those who cannot, Try this !!! Go in front of a mirror and give smile at yourself and Thank God for creating me like this.. I know you still didn't do it.. Stop and go try it and see or at least switch on front mobile camera and try it.. Can you smile looking at yourself seeing how beautiful God has created you. .. For those who cannot, then Go to your spouse, mother or father .. look into their eyes and Smile and say Thank you for everything and give them a hug..  Find a positive reason to smile and just smile. Now if you still cannot do that also  then look at your picture and smile .. saying funny positive guy 😊😊 I am sure you will smiling now ..😄 Make sure to share someone who you just want to Smile. Because it is simple but not easy ...

One thing Im seeing and hearing A LOT of is people trying to devise the perfect plan. Lets get the smoothest path with the least resistance all laid out & perfect then all without ever leaving your moms basement. Please know 1. "The perfect plan" is a myth. IT DOES NOT EXIST. 2. The path of least resistance is the fools path. Everyone takes it and there is VERY LITTLE reward at the end. I don't care how much you prepare, how much you think, how much you strategize...once you start all bets are off. Its exactly like that saying: "Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face"...and guess what...in any success journey the punches in the face never stop. Ever. The thing you have to realize is: THATS NORMAL. You are not some special case where only you struggle and everyone else has it easy. STRUGGLE --->SUCCESS You CANNOT have one without the other. Struggle is a KEY INGREDIENT, if not THE KEY INGREDIENT to the success recipe! Struggle...

Nobody wishes to be broke. Nobody wishes to be lonely. Nobody wishes to spend a lifetime unhappy. Nobody wishes for a career they hate. Nobody wishes to be unhealthy. Nobody wishes to be average. Nobody wishes for their dreams to never come true. Most people end up here dumbfounded as to how it turned out this way. It turned out this way because most people, when faced with a difficult situation, default to the "now" comfort. They perpetually let themselves off the hook. The instant gratification of low stress, easy work, avoidance of pressure ultimately costs you EVERYTHING. The worst part is...most of the people you know and associate with will tell you you're doing the right thing when you do this. Be conscious of the path you're on and the choices you've been conditioned to make. The seeds you plant today yield next years harvest