DO IT YOURSELF

Never judge a person who doesn't have a relationship status and never underestimate a person if they are single.They might be single maybe because they fear being in a relationship because of a recent breakup or a bad past. Maybe they were cheated upon and they are too shattered to trust anyone again. Maybe they want someone who would understand them and take relationships serious or maybe they are waiting for their true love and they have the courage, strength, ability, attitude and confidence to wait for what they deserve. Whatever the reason maybe don’t judge them. If you are single and searching for a soul mate be careful, because many people are going to lie straight in your face how they love you, how they will never hurt you like how other people did, how they will never leave you or get tired of you, how they wanna spend the rest of their life with you, and how you are so different from all the ones they have ever had. And you will end up getting blinded and do the same m...

Dedicated to GIRLS           This is for the girls who have the tendency to stay up all night listening to music that reminds them of their current situation..!! Who hide their pain and tears under their smiles and laughs all on a daily basis..!!The girls who wear their hearts on their sleeve..!!The girls who pray things will workout just once and they’ll be satisfied..!!The girls who scream and cry into their pillows because the rest of the world fails to listen..!!The girls who have it hard but don’t let anyone know that..!!The girls who may never have it easy..!!The girls who have so many secrets but will never tell a soul..!!The girls who have regrets and mistakes as a daily moral..!!The girls who don’t always win, who may never win..!!The girls who stay up all night thinking about that one boy wondering if he’ll ever notice her or thinks about her.!! The girls who take life as it comes, hoping it’ll get eas...

Something I wrote to a woman who wanted advice on cheating men. I'm honest... Self love comes in many forms, eating right, workouts, reading, but the most important form of self love comes with being happy. Health isn't merely physical, it is mental.  Happiness is transient, you can't hold on to it, you have to keep on thinking positively&practising all of the forms of self love, that keep you happy everyday.  Some men cheat,This isn't your fault.  If you look in the animal kingdom, monogamy doesn't really exist and where it does it is predominantly circumstantial, not by choice. It's not really natural.  Humans are nature, between their minds&bodies, many have conflicting views.  Many men don't cheat hoping to hurt their partners, but because of education, honest discussions are rare.  Most men will say what they think you want to hear & act according to how they have been educated, many don't truly believe that one woman for the rest ...

Some people never grow, evolve or better themselves.  I no longer chill with people like this. As I grow older and wiser I have been learning more about the world, this affects my opinions and decisions day to day.  Once you make an observation, you have an obligation to make decisions, based on the new information.  Yet some people will still behave in the same negative manner, as they did all those years ago.  Some of the reasons that people don't evolve:  They don't read books!  They are tying to copy celebrities.  They can't stop smoking, drinking, taking drugs  They revel in their ignorance.  They don't question anything.  They aren't humble enough to learn from somebody else with more experience.  They believe everything the media tells them.  They are in a spiritual battle and don't want to objectively analyse themselves.  Some of the reasons people evolve:  They experience some sort of life changing traumati...

                        Beautiful people don't come around often but when they do, don't miss your opportunity. I don't mean merely looks,as looks fade overtime, beautiful young people are naturally circumstantial, but beautiful old people are creations of the soul. I mean inner beauty, that beauty that stop you in the street, makes you stand and stare, when your eyes connect all you can think about is a future with children               The type of Beauty that makes you wonder what could have been, as you never plucked up the courage to introduce yourself, now everyday since then you have been kicking yourself, because you haven't stopped thinking about them. So you have searched all of the social media sites in vain and are reduced to going back past the same bus stop, at the same time on the same day of the same week, just on ...

Dear girls,             A guy who is really in love with u.  He's doing his best to get ur attention. He is trying very much to be there for you, to protect u to make u feel safe . He keeps everything that makes you happy.  He's there when u need him. he always talks very sweetly to u. :)he always admires u & make u feel special. Just appreciate everything that he's doing. Even if you cannot return all those things, at least thank him for all the effort. It's really sad when such type of guys do not get what they deserve. but there's a guy out there, who dreams of u, who respect u, wants to be with u. he will do anything just for you to make u feel special.

                                         TODAY IS YOUR DAY TO REFLECT Sit and think about why you are here,where you have come from and where you are going.Ask yourself the questions that scare and excite you.Am I happy... Do I love myself ...if i could choose anywhere to live,where would it be.You went out last night....Do you love the people you gave your time to?Do they love you? ....But why didn't you make love? Tomorrow you are  going back to work...you can't wait! you hate your job and the thought is depressing you.what are you going to change this? you are in a relationship that no longer serves you,grows you or makes you happy...why are you still in a relationship?you want to be in a relationship with the person you love,so what are you going do to make this happen? you want to help other....how are you going to start doing that? you are sick of materialism,are you...