DO IT YOURSELF

Negativity is highly underrated Everyone whines and cries about how hard they have it. They hide from it and try to avoid it. Everyone wants to sound all noble and proper and say things like You're doing it for the wrong reasons... if you want to shove every ounce of every doubt & disbelief that ANYONE ever expressed to you down their throat. I say bullshit....EMBRACE IT Negativity is an amazing fuel for success when you know how to harness it. Every time I feel burnt, frustrated, lazy...I draw on those emotions to get  in gear and start moving the direction I need to go. Unfortunately, the world is a mean place...especially if you have big dreams...it will do EVERYTHING it can to get you lose belief in yourself, become insecure and accept a path you don't really want. Then it will tell you that you should be grateful for that path. It will push you to the brink and make you question EVERYTHING about yourself. And when that happens you have two choices: A. Give i...

So much of society is focused on "whats in it for me?". This exactly the OPPOSITE of the attitude that gets you anywhere in life. When 99% of the people are the "take take take" variety...how do you stand out and create value for yourself? BE SOMEONE WHO GIVES. BE SOMEONE WHO CONTRIBUTES. BE SOME WHO MAKES OTHERS BETTER. When you give yourself selflessly you not only make yourself stand out...you become more valuable in a relationship, organization and society. This leads to bigger and better opportunities and also you create a more fulfilling existence for yourself. Giving isnt only the key to success...its the key to happiness. Its not "what can I get?"...its "what can I give?". If you're a "what can I get" person don't be surprised.

I see so many people trying to craft, construct, and design THE PERFECT plan for their lives. They look for a plan that has zero obstacles, zero risk, zero setbacks, zero fear that requires the least amount of effort possible. You know what a plan like that gets you? ZERO RESULTS. You know why? Because you'll always be in "Plan mode" and never start "ACTION MODE" because a plan like that doesnt exist The VERY BEST thing you can do RIGHT NOW is accept that you are going to screw up. You are going to make mistakes. You are going to fail. AND THIS IS A GREAT THING EMBRACE IT You cannot win without out first learning how to lose. Once you fully grasp this concept, instead of looking at "failure" as a negative thing...you'll get excited to fail and apply the lessons "failing" blesses you with. Failure in average minds, is generally thought of as some negative event that is beyond our control. In reality, "Failure" is on...